I could make this another entry about how much I love and adore my friends. Cause I do. Big time.
But I Think everybody's got the point by now.
It's funny how people like to throw around the phrase "My best friend".
Cause.. I hear friends call each other that all the time.. then they turn right around and trash talk each other. and when they see each other again.. it's all smiles.
It confuses me.
I struggle a lot with anxiety. A lot.
I have periods in my life where everything is just, shit and I fall apart.
It all started after the whole Jordan episode.
It wasn't until then than I knew the full meaning of "anxiety".
No one who has ever had anxiety can fully understand it.
It is the most horrible feeling ever.
The type of anxiety I struggle with is not usually the "panic attack" kind.
Mine is more.. straight up, "I-want-to-die" type of feeling.
Not like, I have suicide thoughts, but more like, I hope I don't have to wake up tomorrow.
Some of the people that come in to my life, we may get close, we might even end up becoming really good friends. Some of those people tend to disappear, just like that when I find myself in one of my "lows". And when I get out of it.. They seam to play it like nothing ever happened.
I'm sorry, not really.. But that's not how friendship works.. At least not SHOULD work.
I stand strong for my friends when they need me.
Cause I expect nothing less from them when I need them.
It's simple.. Friends support each other and help each other in times of need.
At least those are the kind of friends I want in my life.
I have a bunch of friends that I will forever hold close to my heart, no matter where life takes me.
They have been my friends for years, YEARS.
I truly believe that if we have been friends for this long.. Not much could possibly get in between us.
I love these people dearly.
I may not see these friends every day. Or even talk to them every week.
But I know where they are if I should need them.
THEY, are my best friends.
stat
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Thursday, October 3, 2013
blah
Oy...
So mentally drained right now i'm not even.. Yea..
I don't understand people questioning me and my choice to stay away from certain things, drugs.
I really se no reason as to why anyone should question it really?
I've said it a million times before.
My issue with drugs is not that I can not be friends with people who use, It's simply the fact that I want to be aware. I want to KNOW. For many reasons, main reason probably that I want to be able to stay away from certain situations where "shit goes down".
It's that simple.
I really have no reason to why I should have to keep explaining myself either..
But people seem to not understand.. so I feel the need to KEEP explaining.
I will never "out" anyone if I find out that one or more of my friends are using.
It's just not what this is about..
It makes me really sad that some people feel the need to argue with me for the benefit of "the other side". Why? I have my opinion on the matter and I feel no need to have you tell me reasons to why my friend/s are using. I DON'T CARE.
I'm sad.
So mentally drained right now i'm not even.. Yea..
I don't understand people questioning me and my choice to stay away from certain things, drugs.
I really se no reason as to why anyone should question it really?
I've said it a million times before.
My issue with drugs is not that I can not be friends with people who use, It's simply the fact that I want to be aware. I want to KNOW. For many reasons, main reason probably that I want to be able to stay away from certain situations where "shit goes down".
It's that simple.
I really have no reason to why I should have to keep explaining myself either..
But people seem to not understand.. so I feel the need to KEEP explaining.
I will never "out" anyone if I find out that one or more of my friends are using.
It's just not what this is about..
It makes me really sad that some people feel the need to argue with me for the benefit of "the other side". Why? I have my opinion on the matter and I feel no need to have you tell me reasons to why my friend/s are using. I DON'T CARE.
I'm sad.
Saturday, September 28, 2013
Awesome week part from...
Friday night.
Have had a fantastic week so far and hopefully weekend will match it.
This week went by so fast I can't even understand it.
My thoughts and questions about drugs and substance abuse in general is still going on.
I guess the more I learn the more shit I discover.
NEVER EEEEVER underestimate my ability to find shit out. EVER.
I've always been like that. I just.. I don't know. I just.. know? And if I don't know.. I will find out.
Loyalty is key in friendship. And with being loyal I mean, trust, support, acceptance and so on.
When I lose trust in someone.. 99% of the time I will not be able to find it in that person again.
It's just ruined.
I have SERIOUS issues when it comes to substance abuse.
Obviously I don't mean that I use. I have a problem with other people around me using.
I went through hell as a child with my mother abusing me mentally and physically.
She was a hard core alcoholic and it resulted in me taking on all kinds of personality traits and disorders. I have worked trough and "gotten rid of" most.. many of these things, but it's gonna take YEARS before I can call myself "healthy".
My friends know how I feel about drugs in my "circle".
I am 100% against in. I will judge the shit out of you if I find out you are doing it.
Because well, I just don't see the point in it, and I don't understand it.
And also because it brings me back to my childhood and that scares the living crap out of me.
People whom I don't consider my friends, I don't bother with.
But the people who know me, call them selves my friends and choose to not tell me about the fact that they use. It's just.. Wrong!
YOU are taking away MY choice to not have shit like that in my life.
Egocentric & selfish are the two nicest words I would call you.
I made a choice to stay away from people and situations where drugs are involved.
And for someone to know my history, and take that choice away from me and walk all over it.
Well excuse my language.. but Fuck you.
Have had a fantastic week so far and hopefully weekend will match it.
This week went by so fast I can't even understand it.
My thoughts and questions about drugs and substance abuse in general is still going on.
I guess the more I learn the more shit I discover.
NEVER EEEEVER underestimate my ability to find shit out. EVER.
I've always been like that. I just.. I don't know. I just.. know? And if I don't know.. I will find out.
Loyalty is key in friendship. And with being loyal I mean, trust, support, acceptance and so on.
When I lose trust in someone.. 99% of the time I will not be able to find it in that person again.
It's just ruined.
I have SERIOUS issues when it comes to substance abuse.
Obviously I don't mean that I use. I have a problem with other people around me using.
I went through hell as a child with my mother abusing me mentally and physically.
She was a hard core alcoholic and it resulted in me taking on all kinds of personality traits and disorders. I have worked trough and "gotten rid of" most.. many of these things, but it's gonna take YEARS before I can call myself "healthy".
My friends know how I feel about drugs in my "circle".
I am 100% against in. I will judge the shit out of you if I find out you are doing it.
Because well, I just don't see the point in it, and I don't understand it.
And also because it brings me back to my childhood and that scares the living crap out of me.
People whom I don't consider my friends, I don't bother with.
But the people who know me, call them selves my friends and choose to not tell me about the fact that they use. It's just.. Wrong!
YOU are taking away MY choice to not have shit like that in my life.
Egocentric & selfish are the two nicest words I would call you.
I made a choice to stay away from people and situations where drugs are involved.
And for someone to know my history, and take that choice away from me and walk all over it.
Well excuse my language.. but Fuck you.
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Early morning thoughts
Early mornings is NOT my thing.
Ok if I had work or some other important thing I had to do.. But when my only obligation is work... in 9 hrs.. Waking up at 7 feels PRETTY annoying.
Looked out the window after I rolled out of bed to notice that fall is very much here and that I have to wait a whole year until summer time.. (minus 3 months).
Feels like forever!
Between now and then, I have things planned that hopefully will make time go by a Little faster.
I have a two week birthday trip to NYC/NJ and FL planned.
And Soph will be moving to Sweden in January which I am OVERLY excited about!
I haven't seen her for over a year now and It feels all kinds of not good.
On Sunday my love, the star, the wonderful Robin Stjernberg will be performing in my city!
Can't wait! He is such a wonderful guy!
I liked him before I met him, do to his extraordinary talent, but when I realized he had the personality to go with it, I was sold!
On a COMPLETELY different matter, there is a debate on abortions going on on my facebook.
What's your opinion on the matter?
What is ok and what is not ok?
Would LOVE to hear your thoughts on it.
LOVE
Ok if I had work or some other important thing I had to do.. But when my only obligation is work... in 9 hrs.. Waking up at 7 feels PRETTY annoying.
Looked out the window after I rolled out of bed to notice that fall is very much here and that I have to wait a whole year until summer time.. (minus 3 months).
Feels like forever!
Between now and then, I have things planned that hopefully will make time go by a Little faster.
I have a two week birthday trip to NYC/NJ and FL planned.
And Soph will be moving to Sweden in January which I am OVERLY excited about!
I haven't seen her for over a year now and It feels all kinds of not good.
On Sunday my love, the star, the wonderful Robin Stjernberg will be performing in my city!
Can't wait! He is such a wonderful guy!
I liked him before I met him, do to his extraordinary talent, but when I realized he had the personality to go with it, I was sold!
On a COMPLETELY different matter, there is a debate on abortions going on on my facebook.
What's your opinion on the matter?
What is ok and what is not ok?
Would LOVE to hear your thoughts on it.
LOVE
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Confused
So many thoughts tumbling around in my head right now.
I'm in a weird state of mind.
I like to know where i have people around me, yea i know.. Don't we all?
And yes, sure we might. But i'm probaby even more so than most people.
Maybe it has to do with the fact that i suffer from pretty bad anxiety.
I don't know and it's beside the fact.
I'm also one of those people who make connections to people and situations, strong connections.
I love people and their life stories.
And people who can teach me about things, become people i look up to.
I love knowing about things. Listning to people.
It's what i do, and who i am.
I never judge people based on their past.
I have a past too. And it's not a pretty one!
I've fucked up royaly, hurt people. So who would i be to pass judgement on someone else?
I just base my opinion on someone from who and where they are when i meet them.
Basically, my heart is very open to people and i trust with everything i am, makes it easy for me to get burned and/or hurt by people.
And right now.. I definitely have burned my self.
I don't wanna close my heart and get suspicious of people..
I'm in a weird state of mind.
I like to know where i have people around me, yea i know.. Don't we all?
And yes, sure we might. But i'm probaby even more so than most people.
Maybe it has to do with the fact that i suffer from pretty bad anxiety.
I don't know and it's beside the fact.
I'm also one of those people who make connections to people and situations, strong connections.
I love people and their life stories.
And people who can teach me about things, become people i look up to.
I love knowing about things. Listning to people.
It's what i do, and who i am.
I never judge people based on their past.
I have a past too. And it's not a pretty one!
I've fucked up royaly, hurt people. So who would i be to pass judgement on someone else?
I just base my opinion on someone from who and where they are when i meet them.
Basically, my heart is very open to people and i trust with everything i am, makes it easy for me to get burned and/or hurt by people.
And right now.. I definitely have burned my self.
I don't wanna close my heart and get suspicious of people..
Saturday, September 14, 2013
Mind fuck!!
I have seriously bad taste in men. No, really.
I know that to most of the people who know me, this will not come as any news.
You all have known this for years. But this one.. Yea.
I was fuckin blind sided!!
I could go on a rant about this but i won't.
Just wanna put it out there that you, sir.. Are an ASS!!
I know that to most of the people who know me, this will not come as any news.
You all have known this for years. But this one.. Yea.
I was fuckin blind sided!!
I could go on a rant about this but i won't.
Just wanna put it out there that you, sir.. Are an ASS!!
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Forever a bad blogger..
But then again.. This blog was supposed to be for ME, not for anyones Entertainment.
I sometimes even regret the fact that I made it public.
It was much easier to write back when no one knew it existed.
But oh well, not much to do about that now.
Anyways, It's been a while since I updated and a lot has happened.
Since this is a positive blog I am not gonna update on any negativity so let's stick to happy feelings :)
First off, I've moved! Am now living with a FANTASTIC person.
Prior to moving here I only knew her through a friend and we had only met a handful of times.
Turns out we get a long PERFECTLY.
She compliments my personality like no one else and we have a lot of fun together.
She, and living here has contributed to me feeling and doing better than I have done in YEARS.
I am more smiley and happy and just generally more, harmonic?
On a different note, I got to sit down with someone and ask a lot of questions about drug abuse and just, substance abuse in general.
I in some ways, look up to this person.
I guess the main reason would be the fact that he knows A LOT on a subject that has basically covered and shaped my entire life and the person I am today.
The subject being something I know absolutely nothing about or can not understand it if my life depended on it.
So, I guess you could say I feel comfortable, around him.. as he is so... "in" it..?
It's a really weird feeling and hard to explain I guess.. but it's a good feeling.
And I stand in gratitude to him for explaining and educating me on the subject.
PROMISE to update again THIS week.
Love to all!
I sometimes even regret the fact that I made it public.
It was much easier to write back when no one knew it existed.
But oh well, not much to do about that now.
Anyways, It's been a while since I updated and a lot has happened.
Since this is a positive blog I am not gonna update on any negativity so let's stick to happy feelings :)
First off, I've moved! Am now living with a FANTASTIC person.
Prior to moving here I only knew her through a friend and we had only met a handful of times.
Turns out we get a long PERFECTLY.
She compliments my personality like no one else and we have a lot of fun together.
She, and living here has contributed to me feeling and doing better than I have done in YEARS.
I am more smiley and happy and just generally more, harmonic?
On a different note, I got to sit down with someone and ask a lot of questions about drug abuse and just, substance abuse in general.
I in some ways, look up to this person.
I guess the main reason would be the fact that he knows A LOT on a subject that has basically covered and shaped my entire life and the person I am today.
The subject being something I know absolutely nothing about or can not understand it if my life depended on it.
So, I guess you could say I feel comfortable, around him.. as he is so... "in" it..?
It's a really weird feeling and hard to explain I guess.. but it's a good feeling.
And I stand in gratitude to him for explaining and educating me on the subject.
PROMISE to update again THIS week.
Love to all!
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Friendship & puppy love
Vacation? I guess in my case, my version of vacation starts today!
I'm gonna be house sitting for my best friend, looking after her cat while she is away at my ex friends wedding! I hope and know that she will have a blast and I wish the newly weds nothing but good things.
Next week it's time for Stockholm again!
I'm seriously excited for this one. Gonna first visit my new, old friend Anna!
Anna and I have known each other for years now, but never on a "friend" level, but I think we've found each other now and a new friendship is in the making.
Am also really excited cause while I'm in Stockholm, my puppy will be staying with Patrik.
Patrik is the cousin of my very good friend, Jennifer.
My puppy is normally TERRIFIED of men, but Patrik.. she absolutely loves.
Sure, she's a little shy at first but give her a few minutes and she won't let him out of her site.
She has good taste in guys.. Patrik is terrific and I trust him blindly with my little girl!
Will be good for her to be around him. It's good practice for her to be around a man.
Tonight I will be hanging out with my lovely Angelica.
Angelica and I used to work together and I managed to hang on to her afterwards.
It's pretty stupid to let a good person slip out of your life just cause you had "other things to focus on." Love her dearly.
I'm gonna be house sitting for my best friend, looking after her cat while she is away at my ex friends wedding! I hope and know that she will have a blast and I wish the newly weds nothing but good things.
Next week it's time for Stockholm again!
I'm seriously excited for this one. Gonna first visit my new, old friend Anna!
Anna and I have known each other for years now, but never on a "friend" level, but I think we've found each other now and a new friendship is in the making.
Am also really excited cause while I'm in Stockholm, my puppy will be staying with Patrik.
Patrik is the cousin of my very good friend, Jennifer.
My puppy is normally TERRIFIED of men, but Patrik.. she absolutely loves.
Sure, she's a little shy at first but give her a few minutes and she won't let him out of her site.
She has good taste in guys.. Patrik is terrific and I trust him blindly with my little girl!
Will be good for her to be around him. It's good practice for her to be around a man.
Tonight I will be hanging out with my lovely Angelica.
Angelica and I used to work together and I managed to hang on to her afterwards.
It's pretty stupid to let a good person slip out of your life just cause you had "other things to focus on." Love her dearly.
Monday, August 5, 2013
Insomnia
Woke up at 3:10am, wide awake and not about to go back to sleep.
Spent the day at the beach today with my good friend Thea and her kids.
Love those kids!
Yesterday was Birthday celebrations for my gorgeous friend Linda.
A bunch of her friends gathered at her place before we went out.
Linda and I have known each other for about 5 years.
She is one of the strongest and most positive people I know and she is my inspiration to wake up and fight every morning when I feel like giving up.
I've had a lot of thoughts around "dugs" lately.
I guess it's some what triggered by a person I recently met.
He has been battling a drug addiction for a few years and is finally getting back on track.
It brings me so much strength to see other people pull trough.
It's inspiring for sure.
I wish I was more educated on the "drug" subject.
And I don't mean on "substances" I mean, like, what to look for, what are the signs?
WHY people start and what makes them continue..
Do they somewhere a long the road of their addiction wake up and realize "Shit, what am I doing".
Things like that.
My mother battled alcoholism for as long as I can remember.
So yea, I am one of those "Adult children of alcoholics". (ACA). Go ahead, Google it.
Check out the laundry (Link) list while you're at it. That would be what I am working through.
I've come SUCH a long way through that list since only a year ago!
I was just looking through it now and I thought to myself.. "Wow.. That's actually not me anymore!"
What an awesome feeling!
Anyways.. I would love to just sit down with someone who has been trough a drug addiction, and ask questions.
I would like to be more educated on the matter for my own good..
I want to be able to actively make a choice to not have it in my surroundings.
To be able to recognize it and decide to leave, rather than having someone take the choice from me by simply not knowing what I am around.
Well, that's enough thinking for tonight.
Be smart!
Spent the day at the beach today with my good friend Thea and her kids.
Love those kids!
Yesterday was Birthday celebrations for my gorgeous friend Linda.
A bunch of her friends gathered at her place before we went out.
Linda and I have known each other for about 5 years.
She is one of the strongest and most positive people I know and she is my inspiration to wake up and fight every morning when I feel like giving up.
I've had a lot of thoughts around "dugs" lately.
I guess it's some what triggered by a person I recently met.
He has been battling a drug addiction for a few years and is finally getting back on track.
It brings me so much strength to see other people pull trough.
It's inspiring for sure.
I wish I was more educated on the "drug" subject.
And I don't mean on "substances" I mean, like, what to look for, what are the signs?
WHY people start and what makes them continue..
Do they somewhere a long the road of their addiction wake up and realize "Shit, what am I doing".
Things like that.
My mother battled alcoholism for as long as I can remember.
So yea, I am one of those "Adult children of alcoholics". (ACA). Go ahead, Google it.
Check out the laundry (Link) list while you're at it. That would be what I am working through.
I've come SUCH a long way through that list since only a year ago!
I was just looking through it now and I thought to myself.. "Wow.. That's actually not me anymore!"
What an awesome feeling!
Anyways.. I would love to just sit down with someone who has been trough a drug addiction, and ask questions.
I would like to be more educated on the matter for my own good..
I want to be able to actively make a choice to not have it in my surroundings.
To be able to recognize it and decide to leave, rather than having someone take the choice from me by simply not knowing what I am around.
Well, that's enough thinking for tonight.
Be smart!
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Closure
So.. It's the end of an era when I say that I am done with THAT part of my life.
I guess I've been done with it for a while, but I'm so used to loving him that I kind of just stuck around cause it was familiar... Does that make any sense?
It would to Sophia.. I know that much ;)
I have more important things to focus on than to peddle back and forth to that unhealthy relationship.
So.. I'm done with it.
My focus is far from him and it feels good to be quite honest.
I'm grateful.
I've never really been the person to put myself first before.
But a good friend of mine told me that I should be the most important person to me.
And I guess he was right. Just took me a little while to agree with him.
But hey.. better late than never, right?
I'm doing SO well with myself and I wanna keep my own focus on ME.
I've lost a little more than 60lbs since Jan 28th now.. That would be 30 kilos.
So I'm past half way to my goal. Feels awesome.
I'm gonna try and get rid of another 15 kilos before the end of the year, so that leaves only 10 kilos to lose before my birthday in may!
Watch me!
There are a few things that I would love to write here, but since my blog is now open to public, I can't! It's nothing major.. Well I guess it is.. But, I'm gonna give it some time and maybe in a little while I might be able to share.
I hope everyone is doing well.
Love!
I guess I've been done with it for a while, but I'm so used to loving him that I kind of just stuck around cause it was familiar... Does that make any sense?
It would to Sophia.. I know that much ;)
I have more important things to focus on than to peddle back and forth to that unhealthy relationship.
So.. I'm done with it.
My focus is far from him and it feels good to be quite honest.
I'm grateful.
I've never really been the person to put myself first before.
But a good friend of mine told me that I should be the most important person to me.
And I guess he was right. Just took me a little while to agree with him.
But hey.. better late than never, right?
I'm doing SO well with myself and I wanna keep my own focus on ME.
I've lost a little more than 60lbs since Jan 28th now.. That would be 30 kilos.
So I'm past half way to my goal. Feels awesome.
I'm gonna try and get rid of another 15 kilos before the end of the year, so that leaves only 10 kilos to lose before my birthday in may!
Watch me!
There are a few things that I would love to write here, but since my blog is now open to public, I can't! It's nothing major.. Well I guess it is.. But, I'm gonna give it some time and maybe in a little while I might be able to share.
I hope everyone is doing well.
Love!
Friday, July 19, 2013
PT, FL, NJ, NY?
Good morning, good moooorning!
Woke up extra early today to walk the dog and get ready for the gym.
I have a PT session today so need to be both mentally and physically prepared!
My PT had a tendency to absolutely KILL me!
That's alright, I know it's good for me and that neither she or I would push myself longer than I can actually reach. My last PT session I almost fainted.. Yeaaa.. don't wanna do that again!
It's Friday today.. I have NO plans what so ever... I don't think? Or at least what I can remember.. Hmm.. I'm still really craving a visit to FL this year.. Am gonna REALLY try and get money together so I can go visit my wonderful FL family! Just the thought gets me excited!
The thing with me is that whenever I visit the US, I always wanna go to NY and Jersey... for certain reasons.. It's like.. that "what if" feeling that hits me.. You know... I COULD run in to HIM if I go.. So do I really wanna go to the US and NOT go to Jersey?
I do.. But.. I don't? If that makes any sense?
This time I WILL go to FL tho. I haven't been back for SO long and I really miss my family!
Oh well.. Time to go burn some calories!
Woke up extra early today to walk the dog and get ready for the gym.
I have a PT session today so need to be both mentally and physically prepared!
My PT had a tendency to absolutely KILL me!
That's alright, I know it's good for me and that neither she or I would push myself longer than I can actually reach. My last PT session I almost fainted.. Yeaaa.. don't wanna do that again!
It's Friday today.. I have NO plans what so ever... I don't think? Or at least what I can remember.. Hmm.. I'm still really craving a visit to FL this year.. Am gonna REALLY try and get money together so I can go visit my wonderful FL family! Just the thought gets me excited!
The thing with me is that whenever I visit the US, I always wanna go to NY and Jersey... for certain reasons.. It's like.. that "what if" feeling that hits me.. You know... I COULD run in to HIM if I go.. So do I really wanna go to the US and NOT go to Jersey?
I do.. But.. I don't? If that makes any sense?
This time I WILL go to FL tho. I haven't been back for SO long and I really miss my family!
Oh well.. Time to go burn some calories!
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Yey Soph!!
Oh em geeee!!
Got the BESTEST news EVER today!
My most important friend and person in the history of me, told me that she will be moving to Sweden next year!
Only for one semester as she takes classes at Uppsala University, but still!
Am so excited I could die!
Sophia is the reason to me being the person I am today, if it wasn't for her, I would have never gotten this far in my recovery. LOVE her to death!
Haven't seen her since I left Cali back in October of last year.
Will be soooooo good to have her close by again!
CONGRATS CONGRATS CONGRATS!
Got the BESTEST news EVER today!
My most important friend and person in the history of me, told me that she will be moving to Sweden next year!
Only for one semester as she takes classes at Uppsala University, but still!
Am so excited I could die!
Sophia is the reason to me being the person I am today, if it wasn't for her, I would have never gotten this far in my recovery. LOVE her to death!
Haven't seen her since I left Cali back in October of last year.
Will be soooooo good to have her close by again!
CONGRATS CONGRATS CONGRATS!
Broken Cellphone & (next) Weekend fun!
Waking up to another sunny gorgeous warm summer day!
Loving life when then sun is out.
It's Thursday.. I have no plans today other than to walk over to Nadjas place to borrow her phone..
My phone is dead and will be forever missed. SUCKS!
Have been without a cellphone for 2 days now.. feel like I'm isolated from the rest of the world!
Whatever did we do before there were cellphones?
Tomorrow Saara and I have a PT session at the gym.
I have a feeling we're gonna get murdered!
My last PT session I almost threw up and fainted. Need less to say but, our PT knows what she's doing!
Really reaaaally looking forward to next weekend!
Friday my gorgeous Nadja will be having her "moving-in-party".
We'll be chilling at her place, then we're hitting the club!
Will be fun!
Then on Saturday I'm headed off to Stockholm to visit my two Jennifers!
I have TWO!
Saturday - Sunday, I'll be visiting Jennifer. M.
She's one of those really beautiful people who just can do no wrong. She's golden, heart and soul!
I always feel like I can be myself around her, she's 100% drama free and always a joy to be around!
Sunday - Monday I'll be visiting Jennifer. N.
Jennifer and I lived in Santa Monica together, along with Jay!
We got really close really fast and we had FUN! We share SO many gorgeous and fun memories from our time in Santa Monica.. I don't get to see her as much as I would like to now days.. But I still love her just the same!
My little sister might also be home visiting next week, Thursday - Sunday, As I'll be leaving on Saturday I won't get to see her the whole visit, but even if I just get to see her for a few hours, that would be enough for me!
I'm SO proud of her for doing so well and for getting back on track and taking her life back!
Love her dearly!
Loving life when then sun is out.
It's Thursday.. I have no plans today other than to walk over to Nadjas place to borrow her phone..
My phone is dead and will be forever missed. SUCKS!
Have been without a cellphone for 2 days now.. feel like I'm isolated from the rest of the world!
Whatever did we do before there were cellphones?
Tomorrow Saara and I have a PT session at the gym.
I have a feeling we're gonna get murdered!
My last PT session I almost threw up and fainted. Need less to say but, our PT knows what she's doing!
Really reaaaally looking forward to next weekend!
Friday my gorgeous Nadja will be having her "moving-in-party".
We'll be chilling at her place, then we're hitting the club!
Will be fun!
Then on Saturday I'm headed off to Stockholm to visit my two Jennifers!
I have TWO!
Saturday - Sunday, I'll be visiting Jennifer. M.
She's one of those really beautiful people who just can do no wrong. She's golden, heart and soul!
I always feel like I can be myself around her, she's 100% drama free and always a joy to be around!
Sunday - Monday I'll be visiting Jennifer. N.
Jennifer and I lived in Santa Monica together, along with Jay!
We got really close really fast and we had FUN! We share SO many gorgeous and fun memories from our time in Santa Monica.. I don't get to see her as much as I would like to now days.. But I still love her just the same!
My little sister might also be home visiting next week, Thursday - Sunday, As I'll be leaving on Saturday I won't get to see her the whole visit, but even if I just get to see her for a few hours, that would be enough for me!
I'm SO proud of her for doing so well and for getting back on track and taking her life back!
Love her dearly!
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Florida Cravings
Florida. Heaven on earth?
I haven't been back to FL since my first visit back in 1999.
It was and still is, the best summer of my life.
I met people there that would forever change my life, and me as a person.
it's now been 14years since my summer there.. and I am REALLY craving a trip. ASAP.
I'm blessed to still have the wonderful people I met in FL, in my life.
And I'm really looking to go visit them. Soon.
Was talking to the mother of the family, Suzanne, the other day and we're thinking December - January would be a good time to come visit.
The oldest daughter of the family, Lexy is having her first child in January so would be such a blessing to get to be there for that.
Little Lexy.. I still see her as the little 5yr old who helped me to "break in to" Nick Carters house. Ha!
She's all grown up now! Crazy how time flies!
I reeeeally hope and beg to the universe that things will work out and I will get to visit them in Dec-Jan.
December is and have always been a horrible time of the year for me.. Cause of Christmas..
I really don't do well around Christmas.. Spending the day alone.. while everyone else gets to be with their family.. I don't have a family so it's hard.
So, hopefully.. maybe this year I will have something to look forward to when Christmas is creeping closer.
Anyways. Spent most of the day outside today.
Got up early to go meet Sandra and to FINALLY get my baby girl back.
Sandra borrowed my puppy and It's been really weird to not have her around and snuggled up to me when I go to bed. But now she's back and I'm happy as ever!
Took a long walk with her to the dog park and she got to play with lotts of dogs, so when we got back home she fell right asleep. I took that time to go catch sun with my good friend Thea.
Now I'm just laying in bed waiting for my roomie to get home.
Maybe watch a movie later and just chill.
Tomorrow is a new day and I hope it brings me joy!
Hope all of you are well!
Love!
I haven't been back to FL since my first visit back in 1999.
It was and still is, the best summer of my life.
I met people there that would forever change my life, and me as a person.
it's now been 14years since my summer there.. and I am REALLY craving a trip. ASAP.
I'm blessed to still have the wonderful people I met in FL, in my life.
And I'm really looking to go visit them. Soon.
Was talking to the mother of the family, Suzanne, the other day and we're thinking December - January would be a good time to come visit.
The oldest daughter of the family, Lexy is having her first child in January so would be such a blessing to get to be there for that.
Little Lexy.. I still see her as the little 5yr old who helped me to "break in to" Nick Carters house. Ha!
She's all grown up now! Crazy how time flies!
I reeeeally hope and beg to the universe that things will work out and I will get to visit them in Dec-Jan.
December is and have always been a horrible time of the year for me.. Cause of Christmas..
I really don't do well around Christmas.. Spending the day alone.. while everyone else gets to be with their family.. I don't have a family so it's hard.
So, hopefully.. maybe this year I will have something to look forward to when Christmas is creeping closer.
Anyways. Spent most of the day outside today.
Got up early to go meet Sandra and to FINALLY get my baby girl back.
Sandra borrowed my puppy and It's been really weird to not have her around and snuggled up to me when I go to bed. But now she's back and I'm happy as ever!
Took a long walk with her to the dog park and she got to play with lotts of dogs, so when we got back home she fell right asleep. I took that time to go catch sun with my good friend Thea.
Now I'm just laying in bed waiting for my roomie to get home.
Maybe watch a movie later and just chill.
Tomorrow is a new day and I hope it brings me joy!
Hope all of you are well!
Love!
Monday, July 15, 2013
She Shot The Messenger
So.. Messed up weekend!
Scenario;
Friend asks me to talk to her boyfriend about certain events.
I ask boyfriend about things, and tell the boyfriend that I am going to tell my friend about this conversation.
I ask my friend, "Do you want to talk about this now, or later".
Friend wants to talk about it now.
I tell her what her boyfriend has said.
.... I end up being the "Bad Guy" in this. Whaaaaaa...?
Don't shoot the messenger. I did what I was asked to do and still I am the villain?
Makes NO sense what so ever.
Sad and upset..
Scenario;
Friend asks me to talk to her boyfriend about certain events.
I ask boyfriend about things, and tell the boyfriend that I am going to tell my friend about this conversation.
I ask my friend, "Do you want to talk about this now, or later".
Friend wants to talk about it now.
I tell her what her boyfriend has said.
.... I end up being the "Bad Guy" in this. Whaaaaaa...?
Don't shoot the messenger. I did what I was asked to do and still I am the villain?
Makes NO sense what so ever.
Sad and upset..
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
Sunday - Wednesday
The sun is out again!
It's been raining all night and all day today. I guess it's needed after 3 furiously hot days in a row.
I've had a few really good days now, no anxiety for about a week. Thank goodness!
Sunday was spent with my Angel, Nadja and her son, Dylan.
We took a walk to the city beach area (yes, we have a beach IN the city) spent aaaaall day in the sun!
Monday I had some much needed ME time, just hung out, want for a run and painted my nails.
Tuesday I had plans with my wonderful friend, Sandra.
Sandra is one of my really really good friends. She never judges, never questions and never makes you feel any less than fantastic! Love her to death! We hung out by the pool for a few hours than headed to IKEA for some shopping, ended our day with a BBQ.
Today I've had the pleasure of babysitting Thea's three kids. They are always well behaved and never give me a hard time.
Now I'm just laying here waiting for the rain to stop. Hopefully tomorrow I'll get to spend some time with the sun again.
I'm missing my fantastic roomie. She and her boyfriend are on vacation. They won't be home until Saturday.
Well, time to finish up.
Love to all!
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